"If a doula were a drug, it would be unethical not to use it." John H. Kennell, MD
No one tells you that when you have a baby that your body becomes public property. Read here for a few hints on keeping that personal space.
What if there were no pelvis? What if it were as insignificant to how a child is born as how big the nose is on the mother's face? After twenty years of watching birth, this is what I have come to.
The expulsion of a first baby from a woman's body is a space in time for much mischief and mishap to occur. It is also a space in time where her obstetrical future often gets decided and where she can be well served by a patient, rested midwife.